“For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.” – 2 Cor. 10:12
I’m a firmly believe that we ought to do our best at whatever we do. My mother instilled that in me by repeating these words over and over again: “Good, better, best. Never let them rest. Till your good is your better and your better is your best”. More importantly, God demands our best. He expects us to be faithful – doing the best we can with what we’ve got. That requires different things from different people. He doesn’t compare us one to another. When we’ve done the best we can we’ve done as much as anyone else, and enough to please God.
Some, however, fall into the trap of trying to do more or better than others. They are dissatisfied with their lives simply because they can’t excel above others. They aren’t satisfied even when they’ve done their best. They want to be like someone else – look like someone else – do what someone else does – have what someone else has. But, we shouldn’t compare ourselves with others or place ourselves in competition with others. We each must stand alone and give an account of ourselves to God. Your reward is based on faithfulness. When we give all, regardless of how small, it is enough. Your reward will be just as great as the person who, by human standards, who gave more or did better.
Stop comparing yourself to others. It’s okay to be you! In fact that’s what God wants and expects. There is great peace in being content with just being yourself. It takes the pressure off and brings relief. It also makes you more productive. Some of the most miserable on earth are people who are healthy, wealthy, and talented. Although they fare better than others in those things it is never enough to satisfy them. They break their neck trying to keep up with the Jones. They are determined to be king of the hill, top of the heap, better than the rest. And they want the whole world to know it.
God alone has the right to set the standard for goodness and greatness. You don’t have to be like someone else to win His approval. It’s okay to be you – but be your best. – HDS
David Stone
Lakeway Baptist Church
5801 FM 1960 E
Humble, TX. 77346
