“But take heed lest by any means this liberty of your’s become a stumblingblock to them that are weak.”-– 1 Cor. 8:9
“Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend.”1 Cor. 8:13
Far too often the only time we care about how we affect others is when we are seeking their attention and praise, rather than how we might be creating a problem. In many cases the greatest hindrance to a church comes from within rather than from without. Members do things without any consideration for how it might have a negative affect on others. They become a stumblingblock rather than a stepping-stone. Drop outs in a church are common and more often than not it is due to another member of the church.
Some are hurt by the actions of another– whether in word or deed. It is a fact that we often say or do things that are a grief to others. Rather than displaying love we demonstrate a lack of concern for the welfare of others.
Sometimes others are hindered by our attitude. As Frances Ridley Havergal wrote– “ How sad.. that we may hinder without word or act. Wrong feeling is more infectious that wrongdoing, especially the various phases of ill temper, such as gloominess, touchiness, irritability. Do we not know how catching these are?”. It’s true! Many services are spoiled by someone’s attitude. They are a wet-blanket to the whole congregation. Their sour spirit produces a cloud of gloom over everyone.
We ought to be helpers rather than hinders. At this very moment, no doubt, there are people seriously considering leaving their church because of other members. Should they be strong enough to not do so? Of course they should. They ought to ignore the attitude and actions of others. They are in no way justified in leaving. But the offending party should realize that they are an offense and clean up their act! It’s strange how many times the offending party criticizes the “weaker brother” when in truth they are the cause of it. Seems to me the weaker of the two is the one who thinks himself to be the strongest. Have you ever thought about what a horrible sin it is to be a stumblingblock to others? “But when ye sin so against the brethren, and wound their weak conscience, ye sin against Christ.” ( 1 Cor. 8:12). Please think about it! Be blameless. — HDS
David Stone
Lakeway Baptist Church
5801 FM 1960 E
Humble, TX. 77346
