“Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.” Romans 15:2
The Duchess of Kent was universally beloved. Once the Princess Alice, herself simple, sweet and unspoiled, asked her: “What makes everyone love to be with you? I am always so sorry to have to leave you-and so are all the others who come here. What is the secret, grandmamma?“
It was not easy for the noble woman to answer such a personal question. But it was important that it should be answered for the sake of her who had asked it, and who was indeed hungry to know the secret. So the noble lady gave this memorable answer:
“I was early instructed, that the way to please others-was to be sincerely interested in the things which interested them, namely their own affairs; and that this could be accomplished only by burying one’s own troubles, interests, or joys completely out of sight. Forgetfulness of one’s own concerns, a smiling face, a sincere word of sympathy, or unselfish help, where it is possible to give it-will always please others-and the giver equally so.” (by J.R. Miller, 1904)
“Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.” 1 Corinthians 10:33
