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THE SITUATION IS GRAVE–ARE YOU?

May 17, 2010 By Pastor David Stone

After preaching sermons yesterday entitled “Draw Near To God” and “Walking Worthy” yesterday, I couldn’t but help seeing a connection when I read the following article this morning.
 
The writer, Paul Proctor, is a freelance writer from Tenn. After many years in the country music industry, he retired from showbiz in the late 1990’s to dedicate himself to “addressing social issues from a distinctly biblical perspective”. In my opinion he is a voice that needs to be heard. What he says isn’t popular, but he gives us plenty to think about. The article is longer than usual, so if you are busy you might want to wait until later to read it. Hopefully you will give some serious thought to what he says:

THE SITUATION IS GRAVE – ARE YOU?

 

 

By Paul Proctor
“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” – 1st Corinthians 13:11

There’s an interesting word used in the New Testament several times by the Apostle Paul on the proper conduct for Christians that starkly contrasts what is prevalent in the Church today. From what I can ascertain, it’s found only in versions of the Bible published on or before 1901. And, judging from the rapidly changing and declining 21st Century Church here in America, I dare say its teaching and practice would probably be offensive to many if not most contemporary churchgoers – especially those still desperately trying to be more “relevant” to the culture than to the Christ they claim.

The word is “grave.”

Now, the first thing that comes to mind with this word is, of course, a burial plot. But, that’s obviously not what the three verses containing this word in Titus and in 1st Timothy are referring to, though I am not so sure one’s mortality isn’t applicable here considering the seriousness of sin and its “wages” with respect to the sinner.

Nevertheless, consider these three verses where the word “grave” appears:

“But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine: That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.” – Titus 2:1-2

“Likewise must the deacons be grave, not doubletongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre; Holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience.” – 1st Timothy 3:8-9

“Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.” – 1st Timothy 3:11

It stands out, doesn’t it?

If you check some of the synonyms for the word “grave” you’ll find words like, “serious,” “severe,” “weighty,” “momentous,” “crucial,” “vital,” “important,” “somber” and “solemn.”

A couple of the more modern translations of the Bible use the word “serious” instead of “grave,” but I’m not convinced “serious” is strong enough to accurately convey the message Paul intended. After all, if someone’s medical condition is said to be “serious,” that’s much better than if it were “critical” – and “critical” is considerably healthier than “grave.” You see, when someone’s condition is reported to be “grave,” that suggests they are at death’s door – that the next report you receive on them will probably be an obituary.

So, when the Apostle goes so far as to tell Christians they should be “grave,” there must be a reason. When I think of Jesus, His Apostles and the early Church as they are portrayed in scripture, “grave” certainly comes to mind because times were hard for them and their situation was desperate. Jesus’ followers were oppressed. They were persecuted. They were beaten, tortured and killed for their faith and yet they continued to preach Christ crucified because there were many who had yet to hear the good news.

The situation was grave back then and so were they.

But, frankly, I don’t see “grave” in the Church today. In fact, I see more revelry than repentance; and since today’s best-selling Christian authors and experts aren’t very “grave” in their presentations and publications, it only stands to reason that “grave” would be absent in the pulpit and classroom as well, seeing as that’s where most of our theology comes from these days.

I would reiterate that none of the modern Bible versions I checked used the word “grave” in the above mentioned verses or, as far as I can tell, any suitable synonym as a replacement. It’s as if this particular command was edited out of scripture.

Matthew Henry’s Commentary on The Bible had this to say about the word “grave” in reference to the verse from Titus 2:

“Grave: levity is unbecoming in any, but especially in the aged; they should be composed and stayed, grave in habit, speech and behavior; gaudiness in dress, levity and vanity in the behavior, how unbeseeming in their years!”

And for deacons in the Church, Henry wrote this about the verses I cited from 1st Timothy:

“They must be grave. Gravity becomes all Christians, but especially those who are in the office in the church.”

And about the wives of deacons, he had this to say in later verses:

“Their wives likewise must have a good character; they must be of a grave behavior… All who are related to ministers must double their care to walk as becomes the gospel of Christ, lest, if they in any thing walk disorderly the ministry be blamed.”

A burial site is, without a doubt, a very serious, if not somber place. Let’s face it, there’s not much to laugh about in a cemetery. And, if you think about someone taking up their cross to faithfully follow the Lord through a world full of lost souls, what better word could be used to describe their mission of mercy than “grave?”

If we visited a terminally ill friend or acquaintance in the hospital with only a few days to live who had never heard the gospel, should we enter their room laughing and telling jokes to try a cheer them up before their final departure into eternity or should we acknowledge and share the seriousness of their situation with the appropriate attitude and witness? After all, is their condition not grave?

Now consider a world full of terminally ill sinners who don’t know the gravity of their spiritual condition. Shall we act silly, entertain them, tell jokes, sing songs, play games and boost their self-esteem with hugs, flattery and charming chitchat before they die or do we honestly and courageously give them the grave news regarding their spiritual condition and eternal destiny that they might gratefully and joyously receive the good news of Jesus Christ and be saved? How can we expect anyone to appreciate the good news without hearing the bad news first? And is it not the bad news of Hell that makes Heaven such good news?

Could it be the number of baptisms and church memberships are down because the lost and dying don’t really know they’re lost and dying – because there’s nothing “grave” in today’s Christian witness?

Have we, the Church, turned the Great Commission and even Christianity itself into an amusement – a recreational lifestyle of carefree indulgence and entertainment instead of a rescue mission of grave importance?

I’ll never forget the little church my wife and I visited several years ago that held a foreign missions fund raising contest where they challenged church members to raise $3000 for the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering. If they were successful, the pastor and deacons agreed to sing a song in front of the church on Sunday morning wearing big and brightly colored ladies hats. Long story short, they did and it got a lot of laughs even though they were reminded beforehand by yours truly what the Bible had to say about men wearing women’s clothing:

“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.” – Deuteronomy 22:5

Just how does this work out one’s own salvation “with fear and trembling?” (Philippians 2:12) Is it not the gravity of our sinful condition before the Throne of Grace that causes that fear and trembling? And do we not ignore the Bible’s call to be “grave” in our conduct and character when we resort to such foolishness in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ? If Christians don’t take Him or His Word seriously in worship, how can we expect the lost to take us seriously out in the world?

But when crisis comes, everything changes, doesn’t it?

Nothing affects our conduct quite like calamity. When tragedy strikes, it’s amazing how quickly and dramatically our demeanor is altered.

Could it be the Lord allows crises to come along, both individually and collectively, to sober us up and force us to face the fragility of our flesh and fallen world?

My hope is that when crisis comes to America and to the world, which I believe is very near, Christians will once again embrace the duty and disposition we were called to and forego the foolishness and frivolity that has kept us from our spiritual rescue mission – recognizing with grave concern the urgency of the hour.

“Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded. Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.” – James 4:8-10

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WHO APPRECIATES OBAMA?

May 15, 2010 By Pastor David Stone

I saw the headline and it immediately caught my attention–“It Takes Graduate Schooling to Appreciate Obama.”! I wish I had the talent and the time to give this the attention it deserves. And believe me, I have to restraint myself from using some crude language to express the way I feel about it.
 
The article says that the polls reveal that “only among people with experience in graduate school does his rating top 50 percent—Among Americans who attended post-graduate school, Obama’s approval rating was 63 percent in the week that ended on May 8. His approval rating was only 47 percent among those with a high school diploma or less. And it was 48 percent among those with a college diploma who did not attend graduate school.”
 
Although I am saddened that his approval rating isn’t worse (what more does he have to do to fall out of favor?), I am not surprised that those who were indoctinated in these liberal schools would support him. They have been a breeding ground for everything that is anti-American for years.
 
You can bet that someone in the eliteist camp wanted this information made public knowledge. They are the ones who ignore what the majority of Americans want and who keep pushing the idea that we just don’t know what is best for us. In their flawed reasoning we ought to support Obama because he is so much smarter than we are. Sadly, they have persuaded many to take that stance.
 
The truth is, any God-fearing person of average intelligence who loves America could do a better job than Obama. He and his followers have an agenda to destroy what we call “the American way of life” and they are well on their way to doing that if we don’t wake-up and speak-up. Having a half-dozen degrees from a university doesn’t make you an expert–it might, in fact, keep you from becoming one. What we need is commonsense, but that seems to be in short supply among our current leaders.
 
Greg Evensen, a former Kansas State Trooper, said it well when he wrote these words:
Jesus said it best. “Forgive them Father, for they know NOT what they do.” It is truer now than it was at that wretched, yet blessed moment at Calvary.

It matters very little what we say or do about trying to defend the republic any longer. If there are enough souls left to “gather at the river” then they should be about doing repentance and preparing to give an account for what they have done. For some of us, the battle will go on to bail enough water to right the ship and work for a renewed nation built on truth, real justice, and goals worthy of a free people.

The lines of battle are so clearly drawn. Either you will join and fight for victory over the lies, distortions and vile agendas in Washington as our founders did against British tyranny while relative peace remains, or you will submit —– Act now to change our destiny or just simply wait. Despise me if you will for telling you this, but that is your future. Choose wisely…..your life and your children’s future depends on what you do.

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NO EXPERIENCE NEEDED

May 12, 2010 By Pastor David Stone

I find it amazing that so many Americans do not value experience when it comes to putting people in positions of leadership. Proof in point–our nation elected a “community organizer” to serve as the President of our nation, the most powerful nation on earth! If that wasn’t bad enough, think about this–only 8% of the president’s cabinet has ever worked in the private business sector prior to their appointment, by far the worst percentage ever. In other words, the people running our nation have no experience in real life business. It’s no wonder that we’re in such a mess–our leaders are out of touch with the common-man and have no experience at what they are doing.
 
Now the president has nominated Elena Kagan to the Supreme Court. This woman has absolutely no judicial experience and has never litigated a case to verdict or trial! How crazy is that? As you might suspect, she is a strong supporter of abortion, homosexuality, “hate crime” laws, etc. She is also anti- military and tried to ban the military from college campuses.
 
There is much more that could be said, but if the actions of Obama to date doesn’t change the way people view him nothing will. That’s the scary part–I don’t hear many of his supporters admitting that they made a big mistake. I just don’t get it, the same people who insist that their doctor have training and experience, and insist that their pastor is “not a novice” put the reins of national leadership in the hands of people who have no idea what needs to be done. Think about it and speak up!

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WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?

April 29, 2010 By Pastor David Stone

By way of encouraging me to continue posting articles on my blog, someone recently said to me,”I like to know what you’re thinking.” That got me to thinking!

What if everyone knew exactly what we’re thinking? We would surely and shortly find ourself in an embarrassing situation, for our thoughts are not always of the most noble sort. Are we not sometimes angry, covetous, foolish, etc.? There are times when we all would rather keep our thoughts secret. And that is wise, because “a fool uttereth all his mind”(Proverbs 29:11). But, with that being said, our thoughts are very important–“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he—“(Proverbs 23:7). That’s why Solomon said,”Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”(Proverbs 4:23)

The attitude of our heart affects our entire being–our speech, our sight, and our steps. That’s why we must always be on guard to protect our heart. It is the center of our thoughts and feelings, things that determine our conduct. Since we are responsible for what is in our heart we must do what is necessary to control its content. If we don’t disaster is sure to follow. As Oswald Chambers said,”The Bible term ‘heart’ is best understood if we simply say ‘me’, it is the central citadel of a man’s personality.” Since that’s true, if we are wrong here we’re wrong everywhere. The scary part of this is that even when others don’t know what we’re thinking God does! That should motivate us to keep our thoughts pure. Paul gives us the key to doing this in Philippians 4:8. THINK ABOUT IT!

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SPEAKING THE TRUTH

April 22, 2010 By Pastor David Stone

There is a price to pay for taking a stand for what is right. The following article from The Associated Press is an example of what I’m talking about:

The Army says it’s considering whether to rescind an invitation to evangelist Franklin Graham to appear at the Pentagon on the National Day of Prayer after a religious liberty group complained about his description of Islam as “evil.”

Col. Tom Collins says Army leaders were meeting Wednesday and that withdrawing the invitation “is on the table.”

Collins says Graham was invited by the Colorado-based National Day of Prayer Task Force, which works with the Pentagon chaplain’s office on the prayer event.

A spokesman for the task force didn’t immediately return a call.

The Military Religious Freedom Foundation raised the issue, saying Muslim employees at the Pentagon were offended by the invitation.

Although we don’t know what the out-come will be, it’s obvious that speaking the truth isn’t popular. I wouldn’t agree with Franklin Graham on many things, but I thank God that he was brave enough to tell the truth. If you have to compromise to win the approval of others the price is too high. We need more preachers who will speak the truth and let the chips fall where they may!

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